4.17.2008

Sometimes Long-term Gratification Arrives Sooner Than You Think!

Two weeks or so ago, my son Ryan took me on the most fabulous date of my life; we went to his high school's annual Mom Prom. During this amazing once in a lifetime event, I was presented with a letter my son had written to me. This letter was so amazing that it made me cry as I read it because it was proof positive that much of what I hoped I had taught my son had been absorbed. For the first time in his life, I was able to see that my child indeed had a sensitivity for what it has taken on my part to raise him. Here is what his letter to me said:

Dear Mom,

I wanted to write this letter to thank you for all of the wonderful things you have done for me during my high school career. I really appreciated you giving me the opportunity to go to a school as great as CBC and, even more, I appreciate the many sacrifices you have made to keep me here. You have made financial sacrifices and donated countless hours of your time for not only my academics but my extra-curricular activities as well. Sacrifices this large take not only patience but love and I'd like to thank you for being patient with me and loving me through my high school experience regardless of how hard things may have been at times. I will never forget the sacrifices you have made for me and I plan on passing on the same love and patience when I have kids. Thank you for everything.

Your son,
Ryan

I was given the opportunity to surprise my son with a letter at the request of his school. You can read that letter with my son's permission by clicking here.

In closing, Lauren Hill best expresses my feelings for my son in this beautiful song except she mistakenly uses the name Zion instead of Ryan!!! ;)

4 hugz::

CapCity said...

U & your son are blessed. LOVE that song of Ms. L-Boogie!!!

ZACK said...

Ms. Sharon, (since I'm only 5 years older than your son)

Your letter to Ryan is one of the most moving things I've ever read. My brother had to write the same kind of letter to my nephew (who is the same age) and I think it is a great idea. Schools should require this as a regular, yearly assignment.

Then maybe kids won't join gangs, get pregnant early, or stay in trouble because they'll know that they are special.

May God continue to keep his hand around you and your son, and give you prosperity as your souls prosper.

Sharon said...

@ CapCity: Sistah you've said a mouth full! We are not only blessed, we are blessed to ACTUALLY KNOW we are blessed!

@ Zack: Thank you for the sentiment regarding my son's letter and I agree with you on the idea of schools requiring this exercise as a yearly activity. My thought is what could be better than writing down exactly what you think of your child. What an amazing affirmation for him/her to hold on to and to have available to him/herself even on the day you as a parent may feel like strangling them with your bare hands :)

Now, regarding the "Ms. Sharon"...now that you have established that you were indeed "raised right", please feel free to do me the honor of dropping the Ms. as I assure you that having an 18 year old son who is soon to start college dates me as much as I'd care to be dated ;b

Thanks for the wonderful comment!

Mizrepresent said...

I loved this letter so much!